When you think about your day under the influence of the
rule of 168, you’ll quickly realize that there isn’t much time left to pursue
your ideal activities. Just work and sleep consume at least 16 of your daily
24. Add the basics such as eating, commuting, bathing and community activities,
and that available time shrinks even further.
Many think that dreaming about an ideal life is a waste
of time. I disagree vehemently. Dreams are good, and they can be healthy if
they help you envision just what your ideal life looks like. Some mental health
experts say if you can’t visualize and see yourself in that moment, it will
never happen. If you are a do-it-yourself home repairer, money manager,
financial planner and auto mechanic, you’ve probably exhausted your 168 hours.
This process starts with a dream, a clear vision of how
you would love to spend your time. After you and your spouse decide what would
be the ideal amount of time spent with family, on vacation, with hobbies and in
your community, you have taken the first step in creating your ideal life.
Some of you are now thinking about the money and
wondering whether I’m dreaming or otherwise delusional. I’m neither. I am simply
suggesting that it is your life, and you can go with the treadmill-like
day-to-day flow or begin to take control. In fact, I work with many people who
have a lot more money than they need to live their ideal lives; they just
haven’t stopped to answer the questions about what is most important in their
lives. Money is rarely the answer.
With some thoughtful financial planning, you’ll discover
the extent to which you can start to live your ideal life or exactly what it
may take to get you closer to ideal.
Most financial advisers do not go too deep on this
squishy topic. They typically get a list of goals, then rush to the answers,
which invariably involve some investment or insurance that they are offering.
This isn’t necessarily a knock against your adviser. Many people are both
underinsured and spending way too much time reading about investments and
managing their own portfolios.
You’ve
heard many clichés about time, money and happiness. But at this stage of your
life, I suggest that you stop using other people’s words, get your financial house in order and work with a competent professional to reach your
personal ideal life.
John
P. Napolitano is CEO of U.S.
Wealth Management
in Braintree, Mass., and 2012 president of the Financial Planning Association of
Massachusetts. He may be reached at jnap@uswealthcompanies.com
or on Facebook as JohnPNapolitano
and US
Wealth
John Napolitano is a registered
principal with and securities offered through LPL Financial. Member FINRA/SIPC.
He can be reached at 781-849-9200.
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